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Ask HN: How did you fix your narcissism ?, Hacker News

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points by zuzuleinen 9 hours ago | hide past | web | favorite | comments

I had an epiphany this year that I focus too much on myself and came to the realization that I might be a narcissist: I tend to talk too much about myself, I don’t enjoy listening to other people, I tend to judge situations only from my perspective, I have an inflated ego and take things too personal.

These traits have affected my personal and professional life and would really like to fix them. I did some search on Amazon but it seems that all the books are written for people who were affected by narcissistic people. Couldn’t find any book for people who are narcissistic themselves and want to fix that.